K is for Kinky

K is for Kinky

Of course K is for Kinky, how could it be for anything else?  What is kinky sex?  According to the dictionary it is anything unusual, bizarre, or deviant in a sexual way or manner.  

So this leaves me pondering,  once you have done something "kinky"  does it stop being "kinky" after a few times as it no longer fits the definition.  If you have been tied up and bound to a bed a dozen times, it becomes your normal sexual behavior, it is no longer unusual or bizarre by your standards.  Kinky then moves over to those people over there doing that stuff you have not tried yet.  Kinky then becomes the wild, creative stuff you have not tried yet! 

Kinky should not be confused with your "kink"  which is what someone is really into at the moment. My "kink" is getting beat with thuddy impact things.  Anything can be a "kink" or a fetish which is something that interests you in a sexual way.  Boobs, feet, rope, chains, leather, latex, are just a few kinks there are as many as there are things in the world.  Kinks need to be respected as long as they they are done in a safe, sane and consensual manner.  One of the rules in the BDSM world is "your kink may not be my kink, but your kink is okay".  Respect is shown to the person(s) regardless if their preferred kink is yours or not.   

Find your Kink, Be Kinky and Kink On!!!    Whipped Dreams